Category: Writing


Write Well and Be a Writer

So you write well and want to be a writer?

How to be a writer

You want to be a writer but still asking yourself whether or not should you be one. Stop it.

1. Admit, accept, declare

The first step to becoming a writer is – to admit passionately that you are a writer. Embrace your passion and tell your closest family and friends. Tell everyone if you like. Believe in yourself and your message – your voice needs to be heard and the writing needs to be done. Accepting that you’re a writer will motivate you to write more and better.

2. No TV

This might be random but secondly, throw away your TV.

If you’re just starting out as a writer, your television should be the first thing to go. It’s “poisonous to creativity,” (Stephen King)

Also disconnect yourself with any potential distractions i.e internet, your phone or a friend (#imsorry) and Netflix.

3. Focus

Don’t try to write about everything, at least not at the same time. Have a focus. Know your niche and your style. Write a topic or a chapter and write about it as much as possible for a set period of time.

This also applies to the long term focus. Limit yourself to write for just a couple area of expertise. It’s an easier way to get recognized. Your readers will know they can rely on you for that specific knowledge.

4. Write everyday

Write when the ideas are flowing. Write even more when there’s nothing to write. This post is written because I’ve lost my momentum since last weekends and didn’t write for over a week.

So I just, write. (actually not knowing where I was going at first)

5. Write for yourself

Write to give value to people and to inspire others but more importantly, write for yourself.

Like this post of mine, it’s written for me who didn’t write anything for a week and it’s for all of you who are just like me, people who lose their writing voices. It’s for us who are not sure whether or not to be a writer.

Having that thoughts, whether you’re good enough to even write like a war inside your head already says that you’re one of us. Keep writing and believe you can write and that you’re really (and already) a writer.


How to Start a Blog in 2018

How I Started My Blog in Five Steps, and You Can Do It Too!

1. Choose a blogging platform

Before I go into the details on how I create my blog (within the scope of using these are other blogging platforms if you would like to consider:-

Wix,, Blogger, Tumblr, Medium, Squarespace, Joomla, Ghost, Weebly, Typepad etc.

Which one is the best?

To be honest with you, I’m not sure. It’s already a lot of debate around them.

As for me, it wasn’t a straight forward journey. I used to blog on free blogging sites such as Blogger, Tumblr and (the Free option). It’s a good strategy if you’re just starting and not sure whether it’s worth it for you to spend money on your blog. However, if you’re mad serious and want to cut all the experimenting out, just get self-hosted.

I’m currently self-hosted on platform. It’s the best thing I’ve decided for my blogging career I may say. I wish I could have done it earlier. is the world’s most popular content management system (CMS).


You will have full control over every aspect of your blog. You can add anything to it – forum, online stores, and membership. WordPress is also search engine friendly. Furthermore, there are thousand of beautiful themes to choose from (this is my favorite part) and thousands of free plugins to optimize your blog.


You have to set up and manage your blog on your own i.e theme, plugins, backups and security. It takes a bit of a learning curve. However, there are many WordPress tutorials on the internet or you can always hire someone to help you. (It’s very lucky if you have me in your bff category, I do it for free)

2. Choose a domain name & hosting

Imagine your blog as a ‘house’ where we can find you. The domain name is the address of your ‘house’ i.e.

Hosting is the ‘house’ itself. The virtual space where you put your blog and all its data. Being self-hosted, the space and the control over the blog are fully yours.

There are many domain registrars where you can get your address (domain name) from. There are also many hosting providers which usually provide hosting and domain name altogether in a package.

Before, I bought a domain name ( from a domain registrar, GoDaddy and just use Blogger, as a free hosting. I didn’t have full control on my blog but the advantage was the domain name made my blog look important. At least, it showed that I’m serious with blogging. only lasted for a year because on May 2017, I decided to change my domain name and get my blog self-hosted from a Malaysian hosting provider, NetKL.

I bought the cheapest of their beginners Xtended plan – mySilver X that comes with 500mb disc space storage, 10gb monthly bandwidth, 3 email accounts and 1 free lifetime domain. Whatever the numbers means, they are still sufficient for me.

Other plans on Xtended beginners package

When I told my friends, it’s just RM60/year, they were usually surprised. The following thing that happened would be, either me teaching them how to get the plan or me getting it for them and setting up their blogs. Helping more than 6-7 people with their .com blogs, inspires me to write this how-to article.

For many people, it may sound daunting at first but it’s actually pretty easy. Once you’ve purchased the plan from NetKL, they will send you (a lottt of) e-mails.

It is pretty much step by step but to save you the time, pay attention to these two most important emails (but also check the other emails to confirm the details)

NetKL Network – NO REPLY: Your cPanel Account Information – *Cpanel is where you build your blog! It is the control board for everything on the server.

NetKL Network – NO REPLY: Customer Sign Up – *verify your e-mail and login into Customer Control panel. This is where you see the status of your products with NetKL. A place if you would like to buy a new domain in the future, or continue your current products for the following year etc.

Just login into the Cpanel and Customer Control panel and get familiar with the interfaces.

Cpanel login page

Then, from the Cpanel, install software under Softaculous Apps Installer. Once it is installed, you will have three control panels – Cpanel, Customer Control panel and WordPress Dashboard. However, for content writing and blog publishing, you only need to go to WordPress Dashboard and everything starts to get easier from there.

3. Design your blog

If you’re a coder and a designer, you can start designing from scratch. I am NOT one but still, as I said before this is my favourite part of creating my blog.

Pick a free theme, or buy one.

I use Saka a very simple free WordPress theme and whoever made it, had made it for me. In the past, I’ve also used a free version of Olsen Light and  Apex WordPress Theme by Compete Themes. I love most of the free themes by Compete Themes because they are mostly flexible, minimalist, and mobile-friendly (responsive).

Modify your blog to get your desired look and feel.

After installing a theme, you still need to configure few things. You can go to Appearance tab on WordPress Dashboard to customize your blog. Simple customisation on Site Identity, Widgets and Social Media Icons are already enough to keep it running (before you become crazy to change all the other things on CSS and HTML Editor).

I can write a separate post on how I edit my blog, but here I would like to share one of the best thing I did in tweaking the theme. It is installing the Google Easy Font plugins. By doing so, I can customize the font which usually is not permissible or limited on a free theme.

If you prefer not to waste time on configuring a free premade theme, a popular place for personal blogs to shop for themes is Etsy. The sellers will help to do the installation and modification for you. Easy peasy.

4. Select the best plugins for your blog

There are many plugins for you to choose from, depending on your blog’s need. I try to keep it to the minimum and here are all my installed and active plugins:

  • Akismet Anti-Spam to protect your blog from spam
  • Easy Google Font A simple and easy way to add google fonts to your WordPress theme. Being able to tweak my font plays a big role on my blog’s overall appearance.
  • Google Analytics See how visitors find and use your website, so you can keep them coming back.
  • Jetpack by Jetpack enables you to connect your blog to a account to use the powerful features normally only available to users. I’m able to use mobile apps to blog directly from my phone with this plugins
  • W3 Total cache Dramatically improve the speed and user experience of your site.
  • Yoast SEO The first true all-in-one SEO solution for WordPress, including on-page content analysis, XML sitemaps and much more. I just started to pay attention to Readability & Keyword Analysis Guide and found them very helpful. Following the recommendations improves my posts a lot.

5. Write

Now that your blog is ready, it’s time for the more important thing. The most important thing, actually. You can start by writing an ‘About‘ page with your nicest picture on it or at least a ‘Contact’ page for us to find you. Depending on your blog’s objective – whether it is personal, lifestyle, business or a narrowed niche blog, start writing compelling content that adds value to the readers.

That’s all from me.

I took two mornings to write this post, it’s three times the length compare to my usual ones. I hope if you have the intention to start a blog this year, this post will inspire you to execute! If you decide to create one or if you’re already a blogger reading this post, please share your blog link in the comment section down below for me to visit some time.

Enjoy writing, enjoy blogging.


How to Develop a Daily Writing Habit

It’s my second week of writing 100 words daily on this blog. At first, I didn’t really trust myself on this. I have tried a month of 6-word story and three months of daily poetry on Instagram. Before I started with this daily blog post, I did a month of the daily tweet ( 280 characters) on Twitter.

But a blog post requires bigger word count for it to make sense. So, today I will share three tips on how to develop a daily writing habit. These tips are written for you to start  and stay consistent.

Start small

Start with 6 words. Start with one stanza. Start with 280 characters and increase it to 50, 100, 500 and 1000 words. The secret to changing a habit is by starting incredibly small. The bigger the goal seems, the less likely you are going to do it because the resistance is bigger.

Though I always end up with 300-500 words, setting it to 100 makes it looks easier to me and I know if there will be a day when I might slack, (wake up late or super busy) it’s not hard to produce a 100 words blog post and I will still find time and just get it done.

Set a time, pick a writing space

We can go to work every single day without fail because we know where to go and when to start i.e KLCC every weekday – starts at 8 am – ends at 5 pm, and there we go being there no matter how our mood and situation is for the day. Treat it the same with writing, or any other habits that you want to develop whether it’s exercising, reading etc.

I set 5:00 am in the morning the very moment I wake up for writing. I’ll have a glass of water and straight away go to a low desk in my living room. It doesn’t have to be 5:00 am for everyone, just pick a time whether it’s your lunch hour, 6:00 pm before you head home or 9 pm before you go to sleep but show up every day and every single day – be consistent. It’s going to be hard but it gets easier. Repetition is the key to mastery.

‘Write’ the day before

Think about what you want to write the day before. Write it down on your phone, your journal or a piece of paper. Have a list of writing ideas, go through it and decide a specific topic to write for the next day. Once you decide, the thinking and writing process already start in your subconscious mind and words will flow easily the moment you hit the keyboard.

I visualize myself writing before I go to sleep, very vividly..

the time,

the space

and the topic

and believe I will do it.

If you’re like me, trying to develop a daily writing habit, I hope this post will inspire you to start and stay consistent with your intention. Thanks for reading and talk to you later.