Like all the other minimalists, I write

Hello. I’m A’ishah Kamaludin from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. This is my personal blog.

Improving myself with minimalism

This blog is about minimalism and simple living, it records insights and snippets from my life along my journey to become a better person.

Who am I?

I am an author and poet, geophysicist 9-5, speaker and more importantly I am a mother of two beautiful kids. My kids are #1 on my priority list.

My story

I was an always-straight-A student; received a scholarship, graduated and straight away landed myself a good job in the country. I got married early and safely delivered two cute babies. Life was great. My husband (now ex) followed whatever the hell I said until he divorced me few years ago.

That was the deepest mark on my smooth sailing early life.

The divorce affected every inch of my life. My social life. My job. My physical appearance. (Somehow) my self-confidence and intelligence. It made me feel zero – living in the nothingness. I was depressed.

I know that I have to stay strong for my kids. After dwelling in the ‘hole’ for a few months, I tried to climb myself up, rebuilding myself. Just like death, the divorce ended my life – but I was reborn.

Minimalism is one of my answers. It helps me to stay focus in drawing the line of importance and distraction. It keeps me away from comparing myself with other people, not just around possession but also status,

Who/what/where am I in my life.

People always say that I have the IDGAF face – some say it’s a model-like face which I successfully translated into a modeling career (it’s more of self-exploration than a real career for me). I am a freelance hijab model for almost a year now.

My point is, minimalism materializes that face into my being. It stops me from giving an F about what other people think or say about me. That is a very valuable trait/skill that we need in the fast pace of communication era where we always know what other people are up to and how they live their life.

My other interests: Poetry, enriching kids through storytelling and creating art, content creation (image, sound, video), relationship psychology and corporate communication.

My message to you

Focus on yourself instead of your possession – internal rather than external.

Do things that you love. Explore your potential.

Don’t do things just to impress others, and don’t stop doing something because you’re worried about what other people think about you.

Minimize your distractions, maximize you.